Sometimes despite your best efforts, you have to step back from trying to help someone as by interfering you are doing them no favours. As my mediumship developed and became stronger, I wanted so much to help others, what I found out was it doesn't always work out like that. Firstly we all have personal responsibility for our actions and if you constantly interfere and help someone too much as well as being very draining it stops them taking some responsibility. This does NOT mean we don't help, we should try to help others but there comes a point where we should be helping them to help themselves.
Secondly on a spiritual level, we all plan our lives' challenges and experiences before we incarnate, we have all chosen our pathway in this life, the good and the bad as life is a teaching experience. On conversation with my guides this was pointed out to me, that I was interfering with their challenges.
So how do we know when it's ok to help someone yet again and when to step back? Well when we go through challenges and difficulties spirit want to help us, they want to support us for they want the best for us and they will send us that bit of support and help along the way, so I would say go for it and help where you can, but also give the the person you are helping the means and knowledge to further help themselves, this way we fullfill spirit's ideals of supporting others, yet we allow them to manage their own destiny and we don't interfere with the life challenges they chose for themselves.
Life is not fair and it never will be, nor was it ever meant to be, for if we weren't challenged we would not grow and this is what spirit want for us to grow and to understand what life is about.
